《弟子规》第三章 谨
Get up in the morning before your parents; At night, go to bed only after they have gone to sleep.
When you realize that time is passing you by and cannot be turned back, and that you are getting older year by year, you will especially treasure the present moment.
Wash your face when you get up in the morning, and brush your teeth.
After using a toilet, always wash your hands.
You must wear your hat straight, and make sure the hooks of your clothes are tied.
Make sure socks and shoes are neatly and correctly worn.
Place your hat and clothes away in their proper place.
Do not carelessly throw your clothes around, for that will get them dirty.
It is more important that your clothes are clean, rather than how extravagant they are.
When with an elder or people of importance, wear what is suitable for your station. At home, wear clothes according to your family traditions and customs.
When it comes to eating and drinking, do not pick and choose your food.
Eat only the right amount; do not over-eat.
You are still young, do not drink alcohol.
When you are drunk, your behavior will turn ugly.
Walk composed, with light and even steps. stand up straight and tall.
Your bows should be deep, with hands held in front and arms rounded，always pay your respect with reverence.
Do not step on doorsills, do not stand leaning on one leg.
Do not sit with your legs apart or sprawled out. do not rock the lower part of your body while sitting down.
Lift the curtain slowly, do not make a sound.
Leave yourself room when you turned make sure you do not bump into a corner.
Hold carefully empty containers as if they were full.
Enter empty rooms as if they were occupied.
Avoid doing things in a hurry, as doing things in haste will lead to many mistakes.
Do not be afraid of difficult tasks, do not become careless when a job is too easy.
Keep away from rowdy places
And do not ask about things that are abnormal or unusual.
When you are about to enter a main entrance, ask if someone is inside.
Before entering a room, make yourself heard, so that those inside know someone is approaching.
If someone asks who you are, give your name.
To answer ‘It is me’ or ‘Me’ is not clear.
Before borrowing things from others, you must ask for permission.
If you do not ask, it is stealing.
When borrowing things from others, return them promptly.